I want to be popular?

okay, so for my years of going to school, the best thing to do to be popular, is be like everybody else, and if you want to be popular, you just have to put you self up there. like you know when you have a group project, and there seems to always be that one person that directs the whole group and everyone just follows up to him, well, yes, same concept, if you think you cool, and have that power, over, then you just put youself up than eveyone else. second, is you have to talk, talk about everything, in middle school, i was always excluded, and i just hated that, so you really just have to push youself out there, dressing hygiene, hair, whatever, outer appeareance, does matter, expecially to you. if you fat, but you can feel comfortable, you can be popular, but like me when i had a fat tummy when i sat, down in school, i had to concintrate on sucking in my stomache the WHOLE time, and when i eliminated that, it just helps you feel a little better, depend on you though. third, join groups will help, sit, and make yourself fill welcome but don't cross the line, so they want to run away from you.